tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5304779787487491003.post8785731319400053613..comments2024-01-24T03:29:26.247-08:00Comments on New Wave Feminists: Father's DayDestinyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06129018504883376123noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5304779787487491003.post-33611528963027772182019-06-16T10:15:11.604-07:002019-06-16T10:15:11.604-07:00Iappreciate your post and I'm not trying to at...Iappreciate your post and I'm not trying to attack you, but you said;<br /><br />"… if all those men along the way hadn't failed me"<br /><br />But the truth is, you yourself admitted that you did it to yourself. You said; "I left them before they could leave me."<br /><br />As for your father, you'll never know what the real story is there (mom's always lie about that), just like your kid will never know and whether it's true or not, you'll paint the guy as having left and can't be bothered with his kid. Again, not an attack. It's just what happens.<br /><br />Why? Because unlike single fathers with kids who try to make sure Mom sees the kid(s) single moms decide that they don't want the guy around them (mom), then they tell everyone including the kid that he just left, all the while blocking his access. True in 9 out of 10 cases. And even if she allows access (note she's in control, which is biased), it has to be on her conditions, with everything done her way, or forget seeing the kid(s). That's just what happens. Of course all of this assumes he knows he has a kid. Mothers choose not to tell, then badmouth him to the kids, or say he's dead. All these things are within the 90% of cases. I never see feminists attacking how biased the courts slant against men.<br /><br />I respect and appreciate your self-examination. Maybe go further and see where you fall. 90%? 10%?<br /><br />Believe it or not, trying to help.GiantWafflehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15451219721954127238noreply@blogger.com